How Lucky He Is.

     Cosmo Magazine has another article I like. This article made me realize just how different I am from other females. I am way more willing, open, and adventurous than most of the women in this world.

     Shows me exactly how lucky my guy is. He has bragging rights over any man we know. I didn't know that there's so many small things I consider not to be a big deal that are really a BIG DEAL, apparently.

     These poor men, who have been deprived, who have been suffering, who have no idea what they have been missing. Makes me kinda happy that I am the girl who gets to open my boyfriends world. :)

75 Sex Moves His Ex Didn't Do:

These are statements made by many guys from around the world. What their girlfriends lacked in the bedroom or refused to do in general.

1. She didn't play with my nipples. They're sensitive and I like it when a woman flicks them with her tongue.

2. I was never woken up by her for morning sex. That's the time I am horniest, so she would have gotten major points.

3. It would have been nice if my ex switched things up more often and suggested new things for us to try when we're in bed.

4. She never looked up at me when performing oral sex.

5. I'd have liked her to play a bit with my back door. Nothing too invasive, just a little tickle.

6. Sometimes I wanted her to be the big spoon after sex.

7. What really bothered me was that after I'd gone down on her, she wouldn't let me kiss her until I brushed my teeth.

8. Guys sometimes have a middle-of-the-night uncontrollable sex craving where we need pleasure right now. Well, that was when her legs became a closed vice, and I'd lie there until she woke up ... but by then, the animalistic drive was gone.

9. Why wouldn't she ever play with my hair during sex? It feels so good.

10. She never let me touch her feet. She thought it was gross, but it really truns me on. I love running my hand down a woman's leg and slightly massaging her foot when I'm on top during sex.

11. Past girlfriends should have come up with cool, brand-new positions I had never heard of, then showed me how to do them.

12. It would have thrilled me if she had suggested playing with something kinky, like candle wax.

13. I wish she would have let me bring food items into bed, like whipped cream. She was always worried about getting messy, but that was the point.

14. Paid more attention to my balls during sex. They're very accessible during intercourse - especially during doggie-style or when the woman is on top, much like the clitoris for guys.

15. Nothing is hotter than a woman who scratches and rubs my back during sex. Thinking back, more of that would always have been nice.

16. I wish my girlfriend would have swallowed. It was always so anticlimactic when I'd reach the point of no return and watch her bail at the last second.

17. I think our sex life would have been hotter if she'd been a bit more rough. Little things like a spank or a bite go a long way. If I'm doing it to you, it's usually because I like it too.

18. My ex was big on teasing for foreplay, which was sexy ... to a degree. Sometimes, she would go overboard with the teasing, like constantly just licking the tip instead of sucking it or only letting the head in and then getting off me. Too much of on thing is a bad thing.

19. In movies, you always see the woman grabbing the head-board in the heat of passion.

20. She thought using toys was perverse and wouldn't even experiment. I personally love them and enjoy the intensity of both partners' orgasms.

21. She kept her eyes closed during sex. In the heat of the moment, I want eye contact.

22. A massage postsex isn't something I've had done for me before, but it would be amazing.

23. Right when I came out of the shower, she should have jumped me. I'd be dripping wet and ready to go.

24. It's be so hot if the next girl I dated would scream my name just when she was about to climax.

25. I spent a lot of time arousing her, but she never reciprocated. I think she thought I was just ready to go.

26. Used way more tongue while kissing.

27. The woman I used to date was really self-conscious and wouldn't touch herself in front of me. I want you to fondle your breasts while we have sex.

28. Whispered I'm so wet when were out at dinner.

29. She could have put the condom on me to make that moment much sexier.

30. I love when a girl is on top, but she used to just move up and down. Mix things up and lean back slightly - it gently bends my penis in a way that feels good.

31. No girl I have dated has brought sexy outfits or costumes into the bedroom. I would love it if a future girlfriend did.

32. If she had just watched porn with me, our sex life would have been even more thrilling. It is a fun thing to do as a couple and would have been such a turn on. I'd even have let her pick the flick.

33. I hated having to do all the work with my ex. Every once in a while, pin me down on the bed and take complete control.

34. She would never let me go down on her. I think she just felt weird about it. But I enjoy pleasing a woman that way, so it was a real bummer.

35. I wanted to have sex in the sauna, but she said her cheeks would get too red.

36. Speak up! I can't tell you how much more vocal I wish women would be. 

37. Complimented my penis. She didn't need to gush, but I'd have liked to know that she enjoyed it.

38. I know my former girlfriend used a vibrator when I wasn't around. I'm totally cool with that, and I would have loved it if she had whipped it out and shown me how to use it on her.

39. I dated a woman for four years, and she never surprised me with sex. I always fantasized about her pulling me into the bathroom at a bar for a quickie.

40. Tried anal sex. I wanted to try something different, and if it didn't feel right, we could have stopped. But let's at least give it a shot.

41. I wish she would have met me on our lunch breaks for afternoon quickies in different locations. 

42. Never once did she give me a blow job to completion. It's fine to use it as foreplay, but sometimes it's nice to have that be the main event.

43. I really wish she would have paid more attention to my scrotum instead of just the shaft.

44. She wasn't bad in bed, but she wasn't exciting either. She's give very soft kisses, but sometimes I wish she'd just bite at my neck or nip my bottom lip. It would have made me feel like she was more into the sex.

45. I wanted to be womken up in the middle of the night with her already riding me.

46. My ex could've given me a little spanking here and there. It's animalistic and feisty.

47. In missionary, she'd leave her feet on the bed with her knees spread. It would have been so much more fun if she'd wrap them around me when my thrusts were really working for her.

48. Let me know when she's about to climax. Guys want women to tell them so that we can try to time ours with yours. Even if she didn't want to say it out loud, she could have grabbed my butt or scratched my back to give me a sign.

49. Whenever she went down on me, she would only do it lying on the bed. I always hoped she'd do it while I was standing and she was on her knees.

50. When we were having sex from behind, she wouldn't turn her head to look at me. I want to be able to see a woman's X-rated expressions as I'm doing her from behind. 

51. I told her I was into trying role-playing and got shut down. She could have at least come back with a suggestion she was comfortable with. It made me feel like I could never suggest anything even a little kinky ever again.

52. Immediately after sex, she would get dressed. It instantly killed whatever postsex vibe we had going on. Stay naked - it reminds me of the awesome time we just had.

53. I never felt she was open to conversations about what worked and what didn't work in bed. I'd love to be able to have that kind of open talk.

54. During foreplay, it never seemed like she was all that pumped to have sex. C'mon grind your pelvis into me or do something to let me know you're getting turned on.

55. I wish she'd have spent time kissing and licking my cut lines - that V-shaped area between a guy's thighs and abs. I spend a lot of time at the gym defining them, and they're really sensitive.

56. She refused to leave the lights on. It was a total buzzkill. Even if we started hooking up, right as I started undressing her, she would run to the switch. ugh!

57. I've had several ex-girlfriends who never let their hands play the leading role in sex. I still like hand jobs every once in a while.

58. When she touched my penis, it was like she was afraid she would break it. She was so gentle! A firmer grip would have improved her hand-job skills a hundred percent.

59. I'm all for round two, but my ex would always try to rush into it. She didn't understand my body needed a little time to recover - I'm not a porn star.

60. She'd squeeze her PC muscles toward the end of sex as she was about to orgasm, but it would have felt better if she'd have done it throughout us getting it on.

61. I love a woman on top, because it lets me see practically her whole body. My ex would bend over so our faces were close when she was in this position, and I couldn't see her breasts or anything else. It kind of made it pointless. I always wanted her to sit up straight.

62. When I first walked into her house, I'd have liked her to attack me. We could have had sex right against the door.

63. It would have driven me crazy if she had brought a big mirror into the bedroom and propped it somewhere near the bed, so we could watch ourselves going at it.

64. She hopped up to go to the bathroom as soon as we were done with sex. I would have preferred she let me stay inside her for a few minutes just to feel closer to her.

65. I think I would have passed out with excitement if she had sexily rubbed lube on my shaft before sex instead of waiting for me to reach for the bottle and put it on her.

66. Let me rip her shirt off her. It could have been an old one she didn't care about. It would make me feel like such an animal.

67. I just got out of a three-year relationship, and the entire time, I wanted her to play with my taint. All she needed to do was rub it with her finger. It's such a sensitive area.

68. I see this one hand-job maneuver in porn all the time but have never had it done to me. The girl grabs the guy's penis, one hand on top of the other so both hands touch, and then very lightly twists each hand in the opposite direction repeatedly.

69. If my ex had been more of a technician when it came to blow jobs, it would have made things so much better. It would have felt a lot nicer if she had really done some interesting moves with her mouth or tongue instead of just going up and down.

70. Blindfolded me or tied me up using her thong. A clean one, of course. It's unexpected and would have been so freaking hot.

71. I'd have liked her to suck on my testicles. Sometimes her hands were too rough, but her mouth would have been wet and soft.

72. Wake me up really early in the morning for sex. It's awesome because then we can laze in bed for a bit before we have to start the day.

73. Use her legs to spin her body in a circle while riding me. Thats my ultimate dream move.

74. Moaned while she was going down on me. Guys worry that women don't like oral. So if she had just made sounds to let me know she was having fun, it would have let me relax more and enjoy it.

75. Once, I had an ex who groaned and moaned loudly with every single thrust. I whish she had been more real with me. I know I am good, but I'm not that good.

You can see yourself that these poor men have been deprived. I believe that if more women were more open to try new things, they're would be less cheating, less fighting, and less crime.

If women were more open to try new things, cheating wouldn't be neccessary, the guy would be getting what he wanted so he wouldn't go looking somewhere else. There would be less fighting because sex and being physical relieves stress and pressure and relaxes people.  

50 Things You Should've Never Stopped Doing

Cosmo Magazine Article.

1. Listening to the Spice Girls.

2. Doing the "beep the horn" gesture to truck drivers.

3. Celebrating Hump Day. :)

4. And Sunday Funday.

5. Adopting a fake accent for a night out at a bar... excuse me, pub.

6. Watching a TV show over the phone with your bestie so you can ZOMG over it together in real time.

7. Driving around aimlessly, listening to John Mayer, and pretending that he's still the sweet, soulful high school outcast who worships your wonderland body from afar.

8. Taking naps - get up early this weekend, run errands, be productive. Then come home and crash on the couch.

9. Going to an all-night diner and ordering the so-bad-for-you-it's good pancake bonanza ... and proclaiming your worship of whoever was behind the brilliance of combining butter, syrup, chocolate chips, whipped cream, strawberries, and bacon.

10. Making Saturday night plans on Saturday night.

11. Running around naked just because.

12. Babysitting so you sneak your guy over and make out with him after the kids go to bed.

13. Enjoying a low-budget '80s horror movie.

14. Holding your breath when you pass a graveyard.

15. Making cookies for the sole purpose of eating the raw batter.

16. Playing spin the bottle... every one's braces-free!

17. Designing the cover of a mix CD with a Sharpie.

18. Flip cup - if you had room for it in your dorm, you have room for it now.

19. Always having a crush... even if you're in a relationship... even if he's the Jersey Shore look-alike at your gum who you would nevah date in real life.

20. Dressing festively for the Fourth of July. (and Valentine's, St. Pattys, etc.)

21. Wearing your hair in braided pigtails... guys dig that sort of naughty-schoolgirl thing, in case you didnt' know.

22. Rocking a scrunchie... but not in public. Social Suicide.

23. Drinking chocolate milk - research found it's one of the best things you can drink after a workout.

24. Prom. Throw a theme party and work that old Delia's dress.

25. Playing kickball - it's a bazillion times better than the dreadmill.

26. Choreographing dances. (or relearning your old talent show routine.)

27. Sleepovers! Cover the living room floor with blankets, pillows, snacks, and since you're legal now, lots of wine.

28. Shopping with mom... she's like a living 50% off coupon.

29. Playing makeup artist on a friend - a turquoise, neon yellow, and a hot pink palette is encouraged..

30. Picking out your outfit - accessories and all - the night before work as if it were the first day of school.

31. Treating September like it's the beginning of the year: Buy new office supplies and pledge to get an A in memo writing.

32. Conference-calling your three best friends on a weeknight.

33. Taking up an activity that you probably tried at camp like archery.

34. Spending all day in bed watching bad Lifetime movies.

35. Keeping a list of every boy you've ever fooled around with... the more juicy deets you include, the better your hiding place should be.

36. Giving  those glorious inner-arm tickles.

37. Instituting Taco Tuesdays, Pizza Thursdays, etc.

38. Getting "picked up" from school... only now, instead of climbing into your mom's minivan post-seventh period, hop into your bf's jeep after you clock out of work.

39. Wearing ridiculous party hats all night long when it's someones birthday... or even when it's just to score some free drinks.

40. Writing mushy, where-are-you-now? letter to your future self and stowing them away from another 10 or so years.

41. Going by that trendy name you wish your parents had been hip enough to give you, like Chloe or Bella.

42. Marco Polo.

43. Having a planned, well-thought-out afternoon snack, like celery with peanut butter and raisins, that you look forward to all day long.

44. Making the mall your night-out destination.

45. Watching TV while lying on the floor, snuggling with your fluffy husband pillow.

46. Storing makeup in your offensively large, Bright purple Caboodle - ugly as hell, but man was it convenient.

47. Going to a fancy dress store and trying on black-tie gowns just to see how you would look should you ever get that Oscars invite.

48. Taking a yearbook picture - drop a few for a portrait of yourself every year and you'll have plenty of hot pics to display of yourself when you're old.

49. Stealing style inspiration from Stacey and Claudia of The Babysitters Club... Mary Anne's short 'n' sassy makeover do is an option too.

50. Being totally infatuated with the fact that you have boobs... remember how excited you were to take them bra shopping and show them off in a baby tee?

Day at the Park.

     Oh my friggen god. I went to the new stadium for the CWS in downtown Omaha. Parking ... is worse than ever. It wasn't this bad down at the Blatt. The only decent size parking lot they have is for "passes only." Gay. The other size decent parking lot was blocked off at every entrance.

     We get in the stadium and get in line for North Carolina's autograph session. After an hour of waiting, we finally decide that we weren't going to make the cut so we merged to the Vanderbilt line.

     Vanderbilt is the team that put mine to shame in the Super Regionals. They beat Oregon State 11-1 the first game. Second game, they beat them 9-3. Strike one. The team was 20 minutes late showing up for autographs. Strike 2. The "crowd control" guy cut the line off one person in front of me, a lady with two kids. I was officially pissed.

     After 20 minutes of signing, the crowd control guy was like "This is officially the start of the line for Texas." FUCK ... TEXAS. Srtike 3. The "Staff" guy for the stadium let one of the lady's kids go through the line. This pissed me off even more and I started getting mouthy.

     Boyfriend was asking me what I wanted to do and I responded "get autographs." He told me he didn't see that happening. Oh was he wrong. I looked at boyfriend and yelled out (not at him but I was looking at him) "I PAID 10 BUCKS FOR THIS DAMN PROGRAM FOR ONE TEAM AND ONE TEAM ONLY. THEY SHOW UP LATE AND THEY ARE CUTTING THEM EARLY. THIS IS BULLSHIT."

     I started to realize that the people behind me were starting to get scared and backing away from me. (Including the "staff" member and crowd control guy.)

     The next thing I know the coach of Vanderbilt comes up to me and asks me how long I had been waiting, he offers to take my program and walk it through the line. My hero!

     Vanderbilt Coach Tim Corbin! Thank you!!

     This made my day and my temperature went down like 20 degrees. He got the whole team to sign my book! Awesome! I realized throwing tantrums does work. I always get what I want.

YAY ME!!!

Beginner Basics

1001 Sexcapades If You Dare.           Chapter 1.

     Trying new things can be scary - especially when it comes to your sex life. But wanna know what's even scarier? Letting your libido wither away and die because your sex life has gone from hot to ho-hum. Even if things haven't gotten quite that bad yet, chances are you could still use a little sexual super-charge once in a while. There are few people or couples among us whose sex life is super-hot and steamy all the time.

1.  Say Something Sexy. Tell your partner you want him or her - NOW. Make it simple, direct, and to the point. For added effect, sprinkly in some X-rated words. Ideally, say it in a sexy whisper - or a forceful tone that makes it clear you will not take "no" for an answer.

2.  Open the Door Naked. This is a simple yet obvious strategy that really can't be misconstrued or go undetected. Your partner will usually take it from there.

3.  Do a Sneak Attack. Sneak up on her naked when she least expects it. Brush up against her, or give her a naughty caress or squeeze. She'll be thrilled  at this ambush.

4.  Share a Blanket. This is a simple yet sexy move that can lead to all kinds of fun. Your hands are free to wander and explore - while safely hidden under the protective camouflage of the blanket.

5.  Set the Stage For Sexy Bedroom Antics. A few simple steps to create the perfect atmosphere can go a long way. Preparation  is the key here. Sprinkle the bed with rose petals and surround the room with candles.

6.  Walk on the Beach. Ideally, you should try to find a relatively secluded beach, or at least  one that isn't too crowded with noisy families and teenagers. With your toes in the sand and a drink in your hand, it's the perfect recipe for romance.

7.  Get Sudsy in a Sensual Way. What better way to unwind after a long day than to share a relaxing bubble bath? Luxuriate in a candlelit tub for two.

8.  Build a Fire. Curl up beside a cozy fire and talk all night. Or, let your bodies do the talking. You can even make your own delicious melted treats.

9.  Relive and X-rated memory. Look at your lover and finish this sentence: "The most memorable erotic experience that i have had with you was ..." Then, re-enact.

10.  Trade Nightly Foot Rubs. It's easy, it's intimate, and it just makes you feel good. Soothing a long day's sore feet can lead to an impromptu bedroom romp.

11.  Engage in Silliness. If you're at a bar and it has a dance floor, make out like two high school kids! This night is about letting your guard down and having a little fun.

12.  Write a Steamy Love Letter to Your Lover. Put a little thought into your letter before sending i on its way. Make your letter as steamy and as sexy as you possibly can. Use plenty of hot adjectives in describing all the things you love most about your partner.

13.  Play the "Naughty Name" game. There's something fun about naming your body parts, particularly the penis and vagina. Try "Captain America and Wonder Woman" so you can talk about these secret characters when your out at lunch, at work, or with your parents.

14.  Whisper Sweet Nothings. This is a lost art that should definitely be revived. If you can, come up with something sexy or shocking. Even though it doesn't really matter what you say - just having your warm breath near his ear will probably turn him on.

15. Whisper Sweet Nothings - In Public. Tell your partner - in graphic detail - what you want to do together when you get home. Ignore the glances of onlookers who are wondering what you're whispering.

16.  Treat Your Partner to Some Steamy Shower Action, By Surprise. Your partner is in the bathroom, getting ready for what she thinks will be a typical boring shower. But you've got something better in mind. Wait until she gets into the shower and then slide in with her.

17.  Look, Listen, and Learn While Your Partner Provides and Intimate Road-Map. Take half an hour each to show one another how and where you want to be touched, with the other looking on to learn.

18.  Send Your Partner Romantic Greetings at Work. Send a romantic, lucrid, or sexy love letter to your partner's office, marked "personal and private." Ladies - don't be afraid to add a squirt of your sexiest perfume.

19.  Finger Paint. ... Each other. Draw pictures on each other with chocolate syrup. Or, use any other substitute of edible material.

20.  Write on Each Other. While naked and lying in bed together, use your fingers to draw letters on your partner's back. Make it a sexy message.

21.  Write On - to the Next Level. Spell out a sex act you would like to do to your partner. If you want to make it easier for him to figure out, stick to something you can spell in a few letters. If he can guess what you have written, he gets to enjoy the sex act.

22.  Get a DVD DEMO. Watch a how-to sex tape or DVD together for some ways to break away from the normal!Look into Kama Sutra and other unfamiliar territory.

23.  Cook Naked. Food and sex are the ingredients of a steamy session following a delicious kitchen cookoff. Once your done, try feeding each other.

24.  Cop a Feel. Come up with every possible excuse to touch your partner's private areas. Make it as sexy, funny, or creative as you like.

25.  Be Direct. Sometimes you just can't rely on hints and subtle glances to get your message across. If you man is ignoring you while watching the game, just go up to him without a word and plant a deep, long kiss on him. Grab his hand and say, "You. Me. Bedroom."

26.  Be Impatient. You should not be forced to wait until your partner feels like meeting your needs. After all, you deserve the top spot on her priority list!

27.  Spend the Weekend in Bed. Want forty-eight hours of pure bliss? Here are some tips: Start by clearing your schedule. The only work you're going to be doing over the weekend is pleasing your lover in between the sheets!

28.  Kiss and Make Up. They say a good makeup session can almost make a fight worthwhile. In the middle of a fight, call it quits by taking your partner in your arms and engaging in a passionate kiss.

29.  Be Slackers. Give yourself permission to be lazy for on day. Play impromptu hooky from work or school just to enjoy each other. You don't even need to get out of bed at all if you don't feel like it.

30.  Have Lunch Time Sex. Have a naughty nooner. Even if you don't make lunch for your lover, you could try leaving a love note in his or her briefcase. The idea is pretty basic and the plan is simple. Make it hot and steamy. Invite your lover to meet you somewhere private for an afternoon quickie.

31.  Have Sex First Thing in the Morning. Take advantage of that morning wood. Great sex first thing in the morning with your lover? Can you imagine a better way to start your day?

32.  Kiss. A lot. Kissing is often seen as just as prelude to something bigger and better. Appreciate kissing as an exciting experience on its own, not just when you are hoping it will lead to something else.

33.  Increase the Frequency. Of course, we all know that quality counts when it comes to sex. But let's face it - quantity is important, too. It's an inevitable circle: the more sex you have, the more sex you want.

34.  Enjoy Quickies (Once in a While). No, you shouldn't try to exist solely on quickies, but at times when a long interlude is out of the question, a quickie can tide you over nicely for a while.

35.  Make Love at Midnight. Sex in the middle of the night can be an extremely satisfying experience. It workds best when you're both still very much asleep, but very willing and easily coerced into having sex.

36.  Give Your Partner and X-Rated Gift. Give your lover a signed, framed photo of your most preferred body part.

37.  Spoon. Simple, right? You'd think so, but many couples seem to keep a world of space between them. That physical distance can quickly morph into emotional distance if you aren't careful.

38.  Read a Classic Sex Book - Together. There are lots of great choices - try the "Joy of Sex" or a similar staple of the sexual hot-to tomes.

39.  Make a Date. Who says sex always has to be spontaneous? These days, we all have busy schedules. Sometimes things need to be planned in advance, and sex is not exception. Coordinate your schedules, synchronize your calendars, and set a date that works for both of you.

40.  Focus on Foreplay. Too many couples, especially those that have been together for a while, skimp on foreplay. Yes, the "main attraction" is enjoyable, but it's not the only thing on the menu.

41.  Do Some Dirty Dancing. It is a pretty well-known fact that dancing - especially dirty dancing, the kind where you are virtually guaranteed to have close contact that often includes grinding and rubbing - often leads to sex.

42.  Explore Oral. Some people rule out oral sex without giving it a fair shot. Most of the common concerns or fears related to oral sex can easily be solved with simply strategies such as using flavored and/or scented body oil.

43.  Give One Sexual Command. If you can't bring yourself to give your partner step-by-step directions on how to please you sexually, start small by giving him one simple directive. Agree to let him do the same. The command can be something short and sweet, such as "Let me be on top more often" or "Touch me there a little harder."

44.  Try a Toy. Now that you have ventured into new things, it is time to tiptoe your way into the world of toys. Sex toys, of course. If you're clueless when it comes to sex toys, they can seem intimidating. So start off small with, say, a sensual body feather or a simple blindfold.

45.  Make one Change to Your Sexual Routine. News flash: It doesn't take much to shake things up in the bedroom, expecially if you've fallen into a rut of doing the exact same stuff in the same sequence. It might be possible that your entire sex life could use an overhaul, but to keep things simple, start off small and make one change.

46.  Announce Your Intentions While you are Being Intimate. This one is so simple, yet you won'e believe how well it can work. Slowly and carefully announce each act before you do it. As in "I'm going to lick your nipples until they're hard."

47.  Ask Permission. Even if you already know what the answer will be, it is nice to ask, at least once in a while. This gesture works especially well with women. Ask permission before doing something, even if you know that you will definitely get the green light.

48.  Be Confident (But Not Cocky). You may be self-conscious, but if you can fake it and act confident about your sexual prowess, your body, your techniques, or whatever, most likely your partner will be so charmed by your confidence he won'e notice anything else.

49.  Come Out of the Darkness. Always do the deed in the dark? Shed some light on things. Conquer your inhibitions by adding light gradually: Start with candlelight, then add a little more light each night.

50.  Have a (voluntary) Dry Spell. Even a long-time partner will seem new and exciting when you haven't seen each other - or at least, had a sexual encounter - for a while.

51.  Have a Voluntary Dry Spell - Twist #1. Here is a new spin on the voluntary dry spell technique. You and your partner can engage in creative abstinence, in which only one particular act is off-limits, or where you can have foreplay but not the big payoff.

52.  Have a Voluntary Dry Spell - Twist #2. This is yet another variation of the voluntary dry spell. Spend a week getting each other hot via phone sex without actually seeing each other at all during that period. It will make your reunion all that much more exciting.

53.  Avoid the Same Old Thing. Make it a game to see how many of your tried-and-true moves and habits you and your partner can avoid for a specific period. Come up with a penalty to impose whenever you catch your partner falling back on one of the old standbys.

54.  Kiss With Creativity. It's great to shake up your sexual routine, but the "variety can be cool" approach should start way before you get horizontal. Real making out sections, not pecks. Try coming up with new and different kissing techniques.

     The good news? You don't need to go really wild and crazy. By trying a few new things from this chapter, you can bring the passion back to your sex life - or make it even more passionate than it already is. Yes, it can be intimidating to break out of your comfort zone. That's why you can start out slowly with these simple steps.  :)

Lube it Up

From: Cosmo Magazine

     This post is going to get a little vulgar, if you disapprove, I don't really care. I was reading Cosmo magazine and found this article and decided to share.

     If your love life is a little dry, maybe you're not having sex, maybe there is no foreplay, or maybe your just not attracted sexually, here are some ways a simple lube can help start your engine.

1.  get a soft-haired paintbrush and "paint" hime with lube. He'll be dying by the time you're done.

2. Dab some flavored lube onto your lips in front of him. Once they're nice and glossy, go down on him.

3.  Throw a bottle in the fridge. Later, squeeze a few drops onto the small of your guy's back, and massage - it will give him sexy chills.

4.  Tell him to slather you with lube, but institute a no-hands-allowed rule so he has to get creative.

5. Mix a few flavors to create new combos, like strawberry-banana.

6. Apply a flavored type to your ta-tas, and draw a line along your inner thighs from your knees to your lady bits. Then have him lick it off.

7. Put a drop in the tip of his condom before sliding it on to intensify his peasure.

8.  Invest in a sampler pack, and rate them on how slippery they are, how good they taste, and how long you can last while using them.

9. One thing silicone types are perfect for: shower sex (they don't rinse off the way natural lubricants and water-based varieties do). So keep a bottle next to your shampoo for spur-of-the-moment ideas.

10.  To give him an amazing hand job, use waring lube to start. After a few minutes, wash your hands. Then switch to a cooling kind. The different sensations will drive him crazy.

11.  During sex, coat your fingers and massage him perineum (the area between his penis and testicles).

12.  Work it all over your breasts and run them along his hot spots.

13.  Blindfold him and see if he can tell the difference between your lips and your fingers when they're both covered in lube. Then switch and let him try the same thing on you.

14.  Squeeze some lube into his palm, then have him rub it against your clitoris. Since the stuff heightens your sensitivity, see if he can finish the job just by blowing on you.

15.  Use silicone-based lube to give each other pre-nooky rubdowns.

16.  Spread it onto his pubic-bone region so you get a tingly feeling each time he thrusts.

     If you don't know where to purchase lubricating products, you can search super stores, drugstores, or any adult store.

     Get a little creative in the bedroom, try introducing some new things. If you have never tried this before (using lube) you may be surprised to find out he (or she) may be just as excited.  :) 

# 63. Release a Khom Fai :)

     If you are not 100% sure what a khom fai is, it is a fire lantern. It is kind of like a hot air balloon.

     They are usually made out of a thin paper otherwise known as "rice" paper. But you can also use a produce bag from the grocery store.

     If you are short on money and still want to make one here is a video to show you how to make a cheap fire lantern.

     What you will need:
        - a plastic produce grocery bag
        - 2 (birthday) candles
        - a pair of scissors
        - tape
        - thin piece of balsa wood, long
          enough to cut into 2 equal pieces.

     Be sure to do this in an area away from trees, fields, and powerlines. Enjoy.   :)

Henry Doorly Zoo

     I have lived in Omaha all my life. I have been to the zoo thousands of times. Boyfriend took me the other day and we got some good pictures.


     I have just a few to start out with but I am always adding more.

This was taken in the Lied Jungle. Pretty Bird.

This was taken in the Dessert Dome. Hey Timon!

This was taken in the newer Butterfly Pavillion. They keep the cocoons here where you can watch them hatch and crawl out and grow!

This was taken while riding the new Skyfari. From the Aquarium and Butterfly Pavillion travel through the canopy of the zoo all the way to the elephants and Rhinos. 

When riding the new Skyfari, underneath you can see Giraffes, Ostriches, the Monkey island and Rhinos. Along with other various sites.

A picture of the dessert dome, it's big, it's brilliant, and it's full of fun! Don't forget the Kingdom of the Nights, underneath the Dessert Dome.

This was taken while we were walking through the aviary. Multiple species of birds are present throughout this sanctuary.

Yes, we also have flamingos. They are very pretty and scattered throughout the aviary.

This was taken inside (outside) the Gorilla House. He was getting upset with the people in the background tapping on the glass.

This was taken from inside the Orangutan House, he was so amused with this long piece of cloth and it was mildly entertaining for us.

Look ma, no hands. Just my mouth!!!

I want one.

Finally, a moment to myself.

This is a tiger, sun bathing. This is what they do on their day off.

He's actually not attacking her. It was either dinner time or do-tricks-for-people-time.

baby goats! So incredibly cute.

  Stupid kids wouldn't leave the babies alone. I thought this one was the cutest but I just couldn't get a good picture because of the monster little bastard children taunting it.


     Anyway, that's it for now, I will always be adding to this though. There are just too many animals to leave out.